Thursday, February 18, 2010

:(

Lexy came out of school yesterday, looked at me and said "my friend died"...I could not control the tears. Throughout the afternoon and evening she would talk about Gabe. She told me that he went to heaven like her fish swimmy but that his body was still here and they would have a thing to say goodbye to him one last time (visitation) and then the funeral where he would be "in something like a coffin but not as scary" and be put in the ground. She said that the councelor at school read them a book about angels and that Gabe was her special angel friend. She drew 15 Gabe angels on her homework last night. She said she felt bad for Gabe's Mommy & Daddy because they are probably still crying. She talked about how Gabe's medicine couldn't stop the cancer. She was really concerned about the fact that Gabe wasn't able to wear his glasses because he had some cancer under his eye. She only teared up once while talking about him...

When swimmy passed away I told Lexy that he could still hear her and that she could talk to him anytime she missed him. This morning while she was getting dressed I heard her talking, "I miss you Gabe", "I'm wearing green today because that's your favorite color", "I love you Gabe", were some of the things I heard.

This is hard :(

7 comments:

debi9kids said...

OMGosh! I am sitting here crying. I am so very sorry to hear about another child losing his batle to cancer. And again, innocent children having to deal with loss like this...
I will say prayers for gabe's family and that you are able to find the words for your daughter that give her some comfort.

Jen said...

What a hard thing for a child to have to comprehend. It's nice that they have people to help explain. Hugs to you and your little Lexy.

xx oo

Sharlene said...

Death is so hard and its a million times harder when its a child. I am so sorry for your daughter's loss of a friend and his parent's loss of a son. My prayers will be with you all tonight.

Terri said...

What a very sweet little girl you have there. How hard it must be for children to understand. I will say a prayer for Gabe's family and for you and your daughter that she also has some sort of peace wit

Denise said...

You has such a caring little girl. I am so sorry for her loss and will be praying for your family and your daughters friends family.

The Romero-Schroeder said...

children are not supossed to have to deal with Death, its so hard unimagnable until it happens to you.... HUGS

Alisha said...

So heartbreaking. No child should have to deal with the death of another child. I am so sorry!